LEVELS OF ACCESS
"properly discerning & deciding proximity"
Proverbs 4:23 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
Jesus had 6 tiers of relationship
1. Father/HG: one heart - John 10:30 I and my Father are ONE
2. Family: those who are committed to his Father's will – Mark 3:35
3. Friends: established relationships John 11:11
4. Close friends: whom he shared more intimate time with John 9:49
5. Followers: those he was assigned to impact Luke 14:25
6. Foes: those who would be against him no matter what he did John 15:18
3 Levels of Access
WORLD: assignment level – where the anointing is Mark 10:16
CHURCH: fellowship level – for the exercise of love Rom14:19
ASSIGNED: heart level – the transformational level 1 Tim 1:2 my TRUE SON in the faith
HOW TO DISCERN WHO TO GIVE ACCESS TO MY HEART
1. They bear the fruit of my Father
2. Motives that have proven to be pure
3. Behavior matches words - integrity
4. No duplicity
5. Their engagement could only benefit me
6. Do not compromise because of my emotions
7. Challenges me to be authentic
8. Understands but doesn't condone
9. Can witness proven results of their impact
10. Congruence with my appointed overseer
"properly discerning & deciding proximity"
Proverbs 4:23 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
- My heart must be guarded – regarded as something valuable
- My life is created from it
- Not everyone who desires access can have it
Jesus had 6 tiers of relationship
1. Father/HG: one heart - John 10:30 I and my Father are ONE
2. Family: those who are committed to his Father's will – Mark 3:35
3. Friends: established relationships John 11:11
4. Close friends: whom he shared more intimate time with John 9:49
5. Followers: those he was assigned to impact Luke 14:25
6. Foes: those who would be against him no matter what he did John 15:18
3 Levels of Access
WORLD: assignment level – where the anointing is Mark 10:16
CHURCH: fellowship level – for the exercise of love Rom14:19
ASSIGNED: heart level – the transformational level 1 Tim 1:2 my TRUE SON in the faith
HOW TO DISCERN WHO TO GIVE ACCESS TO MY HEART
1. They bear the fruit of my Father
2. Motives that have proven to be pure
3. Behavior matches words - integrity
4. No duplicity
5. Their engagement could only benefit me
6. Do not compromise because of my emotions
7. Challenges me to be authentic
8. Understands but doesn't condone
9. Can witness proven results of their impact
10. Congruence with my appointed overseer